Widow ( Wisdom )

It is heart wrenching to see that especially in Indian Brahmin Community, a widow is considered inauspicious and forbidden to wear flowers and not allowed to sit on front rows in wedding.

There is a tradition of giving away flowers and kumkum to ladies during Indian Brahmin Marriage Function…

The dejecting scene is that all women including divorcees (except widows) will be offered flowers and Kumkum ,but to widows it will be denied.

If divorcees are gifted flowers and kumkum why can’t it be given to widows also?

The so called divorcees living in cities especially cochin, Bangalore, Chennai,.Mumbai, Delhi, and abroad, ( most of them ) are enjoying dating ,having all the fun and physical pleasures with boyfriends . Nothing bad in it, it is personal choice. But giving about flowers They are considered auspicious and they get kumkum and flowers during wedding ceremony.

Widows who lost their husband due to unexpected death are considered inauspicious.

This is inhuman, cruel,harsh,sadistic, devilish.

The widows need to be given more love and care. They need our support.

They should be given one Extra Flower and Extra Kumkum, no less.

We should keep them Happy. “ Priyam Bruyat” -Do what is pleasant to them. “ Na Bruyat Satyam A Priyam “ – Don’t tell even a truth if it makes them unpleasant.

Om Namo Bhagavathe Vasudevya* Namo Buddhaya* Brahma Sakthi Satyam Jagath Satyam

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