You can love and not be ” in love”. But you cannot be ” in love” and not love

You can love and not be ” in love”. But you cannot be ” in love” and not love
LOVE & BRIHADARANYAKA UPANISHAD
If you really love some one, you will also have the same thought synchronization with your lover. That means LOVE ( Committed Love) and THOUGHTS are not different.
FRIENDSHIP MAY TURN IN TO LOVE BUT LOVE CAN NEVER TURN IN TO FRIENDSHIP.
Now a days it is a fashion to discuss Valentine’s day and discuss Love.
But Love and Romance- Two different things.