Happiness formula as per Sligment’s positive pyschology. H= P+E+M ( Pleasure+ Engagement+ Meaning) H= Happiness ( “Ananda” Upanishad equivalent) P= Pleasure ( ” Kama” Upanishad equivalent) E= Engagement ( ” Artha” Upanishad equivalent) M= Meaning (“Dharma” Upanishad equivalent) (* Psychology…
If you are taking to your customer and saying I am very interested in what you are saying, but at the same time is looking at his watch, mobile phone or doing something else. Are you really interested?? Certainly not ! There is a contradiction between your verbal and non verbal , which one should we believe? The answer is Non Verbal because the non verbal is a reflex action arising from the subconscious. You will not be aware it is happening.
There is a point at which quantitative change becomes qualitative change and at that point change becomes transformation
Death is the last problem that you have to deal with while you are still in some relationship with life. Death affords a solution to our problems. If you were to meet your death now then a certain freedom would be experienced. Death of disease is healing. So death is a blessing and a best friend,
One can drive dedicatively, one can write dedicatively, one can do his work dedicatively, one can love dedicatively,the quality is so definitely different that when you know it you see the difference, each act becomes a deep relaxation, it is no longer tense, your work is no longer worry., and if a man can work with out tension, his work becomes” play” – an enjoyment.That is the power of Dedication. Then Dedication becomes your Meditation
Appreciating others is very rare quality nowadays. If someone says something which you donot like ,just detach and check whether they are right or not. If they are right then give thanks to them and transform yourself. But if you think they are wrong,then there is no problem because you are right. Just with draw youself and be in your consicious state.
When Purusha outgrows fear and experiences bliss,it is shiva and destroyer of fear.
When Purusha amplifies fear and gets trapped in delusions, it is Brahma creator of fear.
Naturally former is considered worthy of worship, not the latter
Sama Veda is the third of the four vedas.It is important veda because , in the Bhagavad Gita, when Krishna describes His glories, He says ” Of the Four Vedas, I am the Sama Veda
In Kashi aka Varnasi in India, the river Ganga which normally runs from the Himalayas to the Sea in the South takes a turn and moves northwards.This is remainder of what the human mind can do.
What all of them really wanted was Coffee not the Cup. But consciously they go for best Cups. This is Illussion.
BUT BY THE TIME YOU HAVE PRAYED FOR THE OTHER FOUR GROUPS, YOUR OWN NEEDS WILL BE PUT IN TO PROPER PERSPECTIVE AND YOU WILL BE ABLE TO PRAY FOR YOURSLEF MORE EFFECTIVELY.
In fact my regret to some devotees is that they chant mantras do fasting, pray three or four times a day, chant slokas But they are not spontaneous lovers. They neither have the spontaneous sensitivity to feel with the feelings of other people
But Spritual leaders should reach Brahman -to the position of SUPREME BEING – Not even Gods- to remain unaffected by Planets.
You need to go behind God to Love Him. God need not to be loved .God will love and take care of you, you start loving the Creation of the Creator, then Creator will start loving you the way you want to be Loved and Cared. Start loving creation from your Home. First love your Parents, Love your Spouse, Girl/boy friend or any other forms of creation who needs your support and love. There is a difference between People who Loved God and People who God Loves,